we will miss you, matt.
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it has been deeply amazing and extremely comforting to our
family to see the overwhelming response to Matt's passing. So
many messages on this website echo our sentiments and feelings
about Matt, those things that made him so refreshing to us—his
sense of freedom, passion, and contentment. His great smile,
his strong hugs, his gentle nature, and his easy spirit are
remembered by all of us.
Thanks to all of you who took the time to share your thoughts here about Matt. We are touched that so many of you attended the memorial service in Iowa City, and there told us personally the kind of impact Matt made on your lives. The springs of Matt's integrity flowed from a deep pool of strong convictions about musical and artistic excellence, an unassuming but strong faith commitment to Jesus, a deep love and respect for people, topped off with this kind of unquenchable desire for living life to the full. We will never forget him. Matt lived free, and was loyal to the end—to his own dreams, his family, his bandmates, friends, his girl, and his God. Matt would be greatly pleased to know that his life may have touched and encouraged someone else to follow without reservation their heart passion in life. We as a family want to thank Ten Grand for their kindness in making this site temporarily available for these postings about our bronze rocker with cast-iron vocal cords. We thank you all for your love and kindness to us. We are deeply grateful. The Davis Family (Don, Beth, Joanna, and Dan) |
| posted by bob - ten grand on 08.10.03 more news will be posted as soon as we get it. you can leave messages here. thank you. |
| posted by heather s. z. on 08.10.03 may his memory be eternal. +heather |
| posted by phil on 08.10.03 words cannot express the sadness, goodbye matt, we will always remember you |
| posted by jessica & mark on 08.10.03 matt was one of the kindest people on earth. we will miss him more than any words can say. our hearts go out to joel, zach, bob, and matt's family and friends. we are grateful to have known him for the short time he had on this earth. all our love, jessica and mark |
| posted by mike on 08.10.03 matt did so much and touched so many lives with the short time he had here. live by his example and don't waste a single second of this life. it's all we have. he will be missed terribly, but he did more with his life than i could hope for living to old age. He will live forever in everyone whose life he ever touched. mike |
| posted by steven z. on 08.10.03 matt treated everyone like they were his best friend -- even after just meeting someone new. he will be greatly missed. i wish there were more people as nice, kind, compassionate and loving as matt in the world. |
| posted by jason on 08.10.03 matt was exemplary -- he had drive, integrity, courage, and a list of traits a mile long to which no words can do justice. he will be sorely missed. |
| posted by Troy Wells on 08.10.03 I saw what Matt did for his family and friends and how genuine his love was. My heart goes out to him and his family. God Bless Matt Davis and the Davis family. |
| posted by Aley Shoffner on 08.10.03 I'm going to miss Matt more than I can possibly put into words. He inspired me in a myriad of ways. Not only was he one of the most talented men I've ever met, he was kind, intelligent, and compassionate. He inspired me to be a musician. May he always be remembered. |
| posted by Mike on 08.10.03 Matt was honestly one of my favorite people on earth, and words can't express how I am feeling right now. I learned so much from him, as I know a lot of people did. I am so sorry Dan. |
| posted by matt a. on 08.10.03 i don't know that i have the words to explain what a great person matt davis was, so i'm just going to send love to the davis family and ten grand and all the people that matt touched in his life. he will be always be a part of us. |
| posted by chuck on 08.10.03 i met matt just over a month a go when i did a show for Sergio Leone and Volara. I'm not gonna pretend that i knew him or even talked to him that much that night, but this is really fucked up and sad to hear about. My sincerest condolences to all his friends and family. god bless. |
| posted by brent woosley on 08.10.03 this is one of the worst things i can imagine happening right now. matt was such a genuinely nice, amazing individual who blew me away the first time i even met him. this just doesnt even begin to make sense. i cant even begin to do him justice with these few words. i'll miss him terribly. |
| posted by Arcadia on 08.10.03 My heart goes out to all of those people who were touched by Matt. He was an awesome person and he will be missed. |
| posted by nick swiggart on 08.10.03 this is some sad stuff, but i just want to say thank you to matt for being such a nice guy when he came down here in wichita, whenever i talked to him he would be nice and talk back, i honestly dont know what else to say, i know dan lost his best friend i love you |
| posted by kody on 08.10.03 we all lost a very important person today, but obviously he will not be forgotten. im honored that i had the chance to meet such a wonderful guy. im honored that i had a chance to play in a band with such a wonderful guy. you had a huge impact on all of our lives matt davis. im gonna miss you tons. zak, joel, bob, and dan..god bless you. |
| posted by matthew on 08.10.03 I can't really put into words all the things that I want to say. I'll just say this, I love(d) Matt and all he has ever done for me and my friends. Ten grand is the reason I have Dan as a best friend, and the passion to play music. I feel sorry for everyone who didn't get a chance to meet the coolest guy in the world. Joel, Bob, Zach, Dan, Jo, Molly, Mr. and Mrs. Davis I love you. Matt... thanx for being the coolest guy ever, and my friend. |
| posted by Liz on 08.10.03 There's too much to be said, and yet, there's hardly words to express what needs to be said. So here's a try: Matt Davis was an amazingly talented, smart, giving, loving, friendly person who touched me and so many others and needed to be thanked so many times when I was just too shy to say anything. I'll be praying for his family, and I'll miss him everytime I hear one note of music. |
| posted by Brian on 08.10.03 I met Matt about 2 and a half years ago. We played a show together in a boxing ring, and our bands got hotel rooms together watched stupid movies, and laughed more than I had in a long time...from then on I fell in love with this man's warm heart and generosity. He was that way with everyone he came in contact with, and knowing him and seeing him as such a genuine person awed me everytime I was around him...it's fucking amazing to me that I'll never be able to laugh with him again. I will remember you well my friend. |
| posted by underdogma on 08.10.03 if there is a god why is it he takes the greats, and leaves these shitbags. im angry as fuck matt davis you will be missed. |
| posted by benny on 08.10.03 all my love and thoughts to everyone close to him. thanks for the music matt. |
| posted by ross on 08.10.03 i've seen you sing many, many times, i know all your songs by heart, but i feel like i hardly got to know you. for that i will always be sorry. i'll miss you. |
| posted by ali on 08.10.03 i never actually met matt but i went to a few of his shows and was/am completely inspired by everything he does. i think everyone should put their heart and soul into everything they do like he did. my love to his family and friends. |
| posted by Josh Mead on 08.10.03 i'm so fucking sorry boys. i'll see you this week. fuck. |
| posted by charlie on 08.10.03 ten grand was amazing... one of the best bands of my time - this dude let me buy the LP in quarters and dimes, and didn't seem to mind at all. poing being, he made amazing and inspiring music and seemed really generous. |
| posted by Bob's mom and dad on 08.10.03 guys, our hearts and thoughts are with you |
| posted by Nick Sakes on 08.10.03 I just found out 5 minutes ago. I need some time here. I can't believe this. |
| posted by morty on 08.10.03 i don't know what to say... i love you guys. this is terrible |
| posted by Brian Schomaker on 08.10.03 Matt was an amazing musician and an even greater person, I am going to miss him a ton. I just want to send my love to the Davis family, ten grand and anyone who knew this great person. We will miss you Matt. |
| posted by chris on 08.10.03 Why do things like this happen to such awesome people. All of us here at the high life house send our love to matts family, friends, and bandmates. |
| posted by Ricky T on 08.10.03 I don't want to belive this. This man has been a father, a brother, and a best friend to me and we have only exchanged a few words. I feel out of place to say anything and it seems to soon to do so, but I don't want to just sit here. he ment more to me then he will know. I don't want to belive this. |
| posted by Jeremy Ward on 08.10.03 A long list of friends-of-friends-of-friends of Matt just informed me of the news, and I come here, and it's confirmed. This is really sad. Matt was one of the truest people I've ever met. A really honest, down-to-earth guy. Fella hugged me the first time we ever met. Truly tragic. This is going to take some time to register. |
| posted by Jon Manning on 08.10.03 this is a horrible tragedy and loss. my condolences go out to matt's family, the band, and his friends. RxIxPx |
| posted by Adam Tetzloff on 08.10.03 I'm so sorry... |
| posted by shannon k. on 08.10.03 i was suppose to see you on wednesday. this isn't fair. you will be missed terribly....all my love to everyone... |
| posted by Mark Schaffer on 08.10.03 To Matt's family, friends, and bandmates, I offer my deepest condolences. Matt Davis was a incredible fucking person, and I just can't believe that he's gone. |
| posted by steven w. on 08.10.03 matt davis was one of the nicest people i've met. this is not fair, his time was too short on this earth and he had so much potential for the future. my condolences to dan, jo, molly, his bandmates and the rest of his family and loved ones. |
posted by Dan Yingling on 08.10.03
matt, I will never forget the times we shared. in Italy, taking off to get pizza, standing under the overhang waiting for the rain. and for the jacket and for rocking my guitar harder than it's ever been rocked before. You will be missed. |
| posted by ryan on 08.10.03 so tragic. why must things like this happen. thank you for the music and the smiles. you'll be missed. |
| posted by jacob on 08.10.03 im very very bummed to hear this. rest in peace. |
| posted by Eric LaRose on 08.10.03 i only got to see ten grand once, and it was probably one of the best live experiences of my life. afterwards i talked to matt and he was extreamly friendly and forthcomming. we even talked about how the next time they came through our bands should play together. i am sad to see that that day will never come. i am very sorry for your loss. i can not express the sadness this brings. |
| posted by rene on 08.10.03 i saw ten grand three times... he was so crazy and into his playing, he also licked me, it made my night.... |
| posted by johnnie and bambi on 08.10.03 i don't know what to say really. i don't feel right posting this, but i guess that's what it's for. i had many conversations with matt that are all sticking to my mind today. i guess they seemed normal at the time, but now they sound different. i really cannot believe this is real. we will miss you greatly. love, johnnie and bambi |
| posted by hayley on 08.10.03 my sweet matt. you will always be loved. i cannot believe you are gone. i'll never forget your passion for people and music, never forget your smile. and your hugs, the best ever. my heart is with you boys in iowa tonight, and to all who loved matt. remember his laughter. xoxo |
| posted by Brian Peterson on 08.10.03 It's hard to express my emotions right now. The only things I can think of are the first time I met Matt. At a show my band played at The Cram in Iowa City (circa 1995). Matt greeted me warmly and later said goodbye with a hug. I'll never forget the times he stayed in my basement as we watched movies until late into the night. Matt was one of the most kind, sincere and heartfelt individuals I have had the pleasure to call a friend, and I will forever miss him. |
| posted by adam penly on 08.10.03 matt, you were a brilliant artist and an inspiration to so many people. bob, zak, joel, will...my thoughts are with you. |
| posted by Brian Korey on 08.10.03 Dear Matt, you were a wonderful person and always greeted me with with a hug and a smile. There is nothing I can say that will express how i feel. You were a true friend and a great person to myself and so many people all over. I will miss you. |
| posted by rich - the setup on 08.10.03 i really don't know what to say other than sorry for your loss. i'm glad i got to meet matt (and all of you) on that one occasion. i'll be thinking of you guys. <3 rich. |
| posted by NOEL on 08.10.03 I give my apoligies to the band and the families of Matt. I've lost many close to me as well. -N |
| posted by on 08.10.03 i've only met matt once. the ten grand had drove to NY to play a show, and it was shut down due to some crazy bullshit just a few minutes before they were supposed to go on. i spoke to him as everyone was leaving, and he was managing to keep his chin up, depsite the circumstanced. i was amazed at how he managed to turn such a negative, frustrating situation full of wasted effort and cops and yelling into something even remotely positive. from the way the people who loved him most speak about him it seems as if he went about everything in that manner. my heart goes out to those who were priviliged enough to know him well. |
| posted by bri on 08.10.03 i am in a band called heartcrosslove. i never really met matt personally, but we played with ten grand at mission records in san francisco, california. he is the second member of a band we've played with that has unfortunatley passed away. it fucking sucks. my love to his friends and families, and him. it's a wake up call, don't take anyone for granted, please. |
| posted by Twin Cities Grant on 08.10.03 I'm so sorry. I didn't know Matt as well as most, just from Missoula, Spokane and the couple shows here at home, but I haven't ever met anyone who was a kind as him. I know by now it's redundant, but seriously, Matt Davis is as close to a wonderful guy as there can be anymore. |
| posted by adam q on 08.10.03 Matt was one of the most genuine, warm, loving individuals I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. Just chalk me up as one of the very many people that think he was an absolutely amazing human being. He will be sorely missed. |
| posted by darryl zero on 08.11.03 nothing but my deepest love and respect go out to matt, and my dearest sympathies to everyone who ever loved him. bob, zach, joel, i'm sorry you lost your brother, and i say with every ounce of honesty that i wish i could give myself up so you could have him back. |
| posted by jeff d on 08.11.03 i had the pleasure of seeing ten grand quite a few times and talking to matt a few times and the world lost a kind, genuine, warm, creative, inspiring and amazing person today. my sympathies and condolences to matts family, friends, and the rest of ten grand. he will be missed |
| posted by nick on 08.11.03 i saw ten grand once at the knight of columbus in menomonee falls and man i am just speachless to find out about matt i give my best wishes out to his family and his friends and i hope he matt is doin good in a better place! WE LOVE YOU MATT we will always remember you buddy also my best wishes go out to ten grand for dealing with this shocking tragedy |
| posted by ryan p. on 08.11.03 matt was incredibly friendly toward me the few times we talked, i hardly knew him, but just meeting him i could feel his sincerity and earnestness. he was an extrordinary guy. my deepest condolences go to those that had the pleasure of knowing him best. |
| posted by sdm on 08.11.03 RIP. |
| posted by jason humphreys on 08.11.03 matt, thank you for being in my life. thank you for playing in a band with me. it was a blessing to have known you.. to be your friend. through thick and thin, your loyalty, honesty,dedication, and heart never ceased to amaze me. incredible the way you could make any heart your's. amazing how you could take music and make it so beatiful one could barely with- hold tears while witnessing you pouring your everything into it. i never told you this, but you have been one of my deepest inspirations for years, and one of my truest friends. though sincere, none of these words really matter. they're just words. what truly matters is in my heart.. my deepest gratitude for everything you have been to me. only ten between us literally kept me alive and sane for three and a half years, and i have no regret in saying that it would not have been the same without you. thank you matt. i'll miss you more than you could have ever known. you truly stayed young until the inevitable, and that inspiration will never leave me as long as i live. jason. |
| posted by josh on 08.11.03 thank you matt, for giving yourslef to all of us. every note and every word had a piece of you in it, and we're all so blessed that you shared it with us. |
| posted by Matthew on 08.11.03 Complete shock. Horrible to hear about this. Matt played in the first three real shows that I ever went to. He was really memorable. Great musician.I'm sorry to all of his friends and family. |
| posted by david on 08.11.03 i just found this out. i'm at a lost for words. ten grand and sergio leone were some of the best live bands i've seen. i cannot believe this. matt was a good man. he loved music. i will miss him greatly... |
posted by brandi and trey on 08.11.03 matt was a wonderful and strange person who made our lives interesting, he will be missed greatly. we are all truly overwhelmed right now. you could always count on a hug from matt. he is missed. |
| posted by morgan on 08.11.03 i only met once about a year ago at a party and he convinced me not to sell out sxe. i guess i didnt know him that well or at all im just one more person that he had a positive impact on. |
| posted by kipling mitchell on 08.11.03 i saw ten grand play earlier this year in san diego and was truly inspired. i don't know what happened, and i don't know how it happened, but i am deeply sorry to hear about this and my heart goes out to those of you who knew him. matt seemed like an amazing person to me after just one night; i can't imagine how his friends must be feeling right now. take care of yourselves. |
| posted by scott on 08.11.03 for me matt was one of those people who gave you a warm feeling in your chest to be around because of his sheer kindness. I will miss his hugs and his sincerity. |
| posted by flying v on 08.11.03 you will be remembered in so many fond ways... forever peace and love to all who you touched... forever my thoughts tonight are with you all |
| posted by Mickey on 08.11.03 I just don't know what to say. I miss him already. |
| posted by ... on 08.11.03 R.I.P. Matt, my love to his family. |
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| posted by jamie sweiger on 08.11.03 oh god, matt davis was such a great person... i only wish i could have had known him better...i mean he was just fun to be around and hang out with. The type of guy that you could joke around with. he would always make fun of me and vise versa... but in a fun, funny way. i will definetly miss the jokin around and just everything i knew about him in general. |
| posted by Christine on 08.11.03 my thoughts will be with the davis family, and everyone that has been touched by matt, his music, his words, and his heart. |
| posted by lisa krause on 08.11.03 hey kids. geoff just called me and told me. i guess i wished it wasnt true. looking at his pictures on this guestbook-my stomach dropped. i found some old letters from matt from 1999, i fucking miss you guys. i cant believe what happened. warm thoughts for you and all my love. lisa matt- your poetry carried the last four years. i'll miss you and your honesty. thank you for being in my life. |
| posted by scottie on 08.11.03 ..all the times you said hello to me just to be nice..all the people you have touched who have touched me.. ..no one wasn't good enough to start a band with matt..no one wasn't good enough for a hello.. |
| posted by Casey of Ricky Fitts on 08.11.03 I've been at a loss for words all day. I'm just so thankful that I got to know Matt, and greatful that we had the pleasure of going on tour with he and Mollie those two times. I love you both. http://www.ultraforever.com/md |
| posted by scotty and crystal on 08.11.03 i don't know what to say to you guys. nothing i can say will express how we feel. we love you guys and our thoughts and prayers go out to you. matt was one of the nicest and most unique people i have ever known. we'll miss him dearly. |
| posted by J.K. on 08.11.03 This is absolutely unjust. Matt was simply a wonderful person full of life and potential. He will be missed, and we will surely feel his absense. I'm terribly sorry for his friends and family. My heart goes out to you all. Rest in Peace, Matt. |
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| posted by chris trenary on 08.11.03 he had such a warmness to him. whenever he'd come back to town he would always give me a hug. im going to miss that hug a great deal. he had such a huge impact on the wichita music scene. he will absolutely not be forgotten. it makes you realize how precious life is and that its not to be taken for granted. i love you dan. my deepest sorrow to anyone affected by this tragedy. |
| posted by jory on 08.11.03 my thoughts are very much with ten grand and matt's family right now. i did not know matt on a personal level but i am very lucky to have witnessed what he loved to do many times. there certainly are not many people in this world like him, we were all lucky to know him, and for him to share his passion with us. |
| posted by benny on 08.11.03 ...the movies failed and the books were lies, so even if i tried i was treated to a dinner i didn't expect, i may never kick a glare across a room and pretend it's got meaning and i may never tell you you're beautiful when we're old, but believe me i feel it and if you catch me shooting daggers your way from across a street or house it's because i am picturing you with all your faults laced tight around your neck, because i still remember how it felt the first time we shut the door together at midnight and i remember how waking up was a blessing not a curse, when you said it was time to go and we went one last time around the bed, when we told each other we were adults and we lusted like kids instead, and despite how we worked each other everything still turned out horribly, so here's a guess on a postmark and a tip of a glass to the memory of shameless want, yours for mine, a toast to the next time we pretened "we" were never "we" and slip a hand to the heat in the middle of our chest with a smile only for ourselves... the payload theme song |
| posted by tomek on 08.11.03 I don't want to believe this ! :( rest in peace friend ! |
| posted by adam on 08.11.03 an awesome man in every way. all my love to you guys. |
| posted by Kendall Newby on 08.11.03 I keep telling myself that everything in life happens for a reason. I'm having trouble finding a reason. When a hero like Matt Davis is taken from us, it is hard to see anything positive. I believe, however, that anyone touched by Matt should try their best to make him proud. I, for one, shall live life the best that I can...until we meet again. |
| posted by bill on 08.11.03 what can i say, that hasn't already been said? matt davis, IS one of the greatest people, i've ever had the extreme honor of meeting. i will miss him greatly. |
| posted by Chris on 08.11.03 I love you, yet I barely knew you. In the short time I knew you, you touched me deeply. You will never be forgotten. My thoughts are with Dan, and the rest of the Davis family, Molly, and Ten Grand. To the rest of you... " You shouldn't throw bottles at people, would you like some of my coke?" |
| posted by amelinda on 08.11.03 peace to your friends and family. thank you for the hugs. |
| posted by charlie. on 08.11.03 "And did you get what you wanted from this life, even so? I did. And what did you want? To call myself beloved, to feel myself beloved on the earth." in loving memory of matt. |
| posted by jim on 08.11.03 i'm very saddened by this news. the world lost an incredible talent. my heart goes out to his friends and his family. we'll miss you, matt. |
| posted by pat on 08.11.03 my best wishes to all his friends and family, Matt and Ten Grand helped make some of my most memorable nights |
| posted by greg thompson on 08.11.03 may you rest in peace. the world has lost a truly great person. i shall forever remeber you as the kid always with a hug and always a kind word. you shall never be forgotten. you will be in my heart forever. |
| posted by matt m on 08.11.03 friend... you will be missed sorely... i cherish the memories of both the signifigant and insignifigant conversations and moments we shared... you are a beautiful soul... sadness is abound... perhaps we will mingle again on another plane of existence.. i sure hope so.... |
| posted by femur on 08.11.03 sending sympathy and love |
| posted by Brodie on 08.11.03 I don't know if you Ten Grand guys remember me, but I booked a couple shows for you in Phoenix a while back. I am so sorry to hear about what has happened. Matt was an extraordinary individual, and I regret not having stayed in better touch with him. This is a tragedy in the truest, most painful sense. All my love to Matt and those closest to him, and don't hesitate to call upon any of us here in AZ for anything you may need. |
| posted by Nay on 08.11.03 I am so sorry guys. My heart goes out to all of you. Be strong and think of all the good things about him. Remember all the good times and find joy in knowing that you got to be part of his life and that he loved you with all his heart. Ten Grand is an amazing band and you have helped many people deal with their problems through your music. Thank you for that and we'll be forever grateful to Matt and everyone else in the band for giving us something to smile about. |
| posted by tony on 08.11.03 my thoughts and condolences. |
| posted by daniel j on 08.11.03 i miss you matt, thankyou for being so kind and caring. |
| posted by Dan - TPTBUTET on 08.11.03 I'm sure I can speak for everyine in my band in saying Matt will be missed greatly. Our sincere regards to his brother, family, bandmates and close friends. I'm speechless and sad. with love, Dan |
| posted by erika elizabeth. on 08.11.03 this is one of the only times in my life when i can honestly say i've received a blow to the heart. i was only lucky to spend time with matt twice, but he never failed to inspire me & make me feel as if there was so much to look forward to. i'll never forget the second time our paths crossed, in march at the ten grand show my friends & i set up... and he hugged me the minute i showed up, like a long-lost old friend. even though i only knew him in a relatively limited capacity, i feel like i HAVE lost an old friend. all my love; erika. xo. |
| posted by ctop on 08.11.03 words fail how terrible this is. all of you/his family, are in my thoughts. |
| posted by mike on 08.11.03 my brother had massive seizures when he was two; he's nineteen now and permanently brain-damaged. I can't say I know how you feel, but I've come close. All my love. |
| posted by volante on 08.11.03 Unbelieveable. We all are totally shocked, but how could we be anything else? A vibrant and bright light has burned out too soon, and all who knew him are certainly at a loss to understand this untimely departure. Please know that, while we are sure it can offer little in the way of comfort now, Matt's family, the band, and all who are touched by this are in our thoughts. We hope that the time comes soon for everyone when memories of all the good can be a relief from the loss you and everyone feels, we are deeply saddened and sorry. Please accept our condolences. -all of volante: gabe, jeff, jon and josh p.s.- we played tonight with Askeleton, and we both got to say a public goodbye, which, in it's own little way, felt like it helped. |
| posted by Sam Koester on 08.11.03 If you could sit down and imagine what the perfect friend would be like....it wouldnt even come close to how good of a friend Matt was. Everything from his music to his sense of humor was a trademark of his own. To his band mates, his family and to all he touched in his life, you have my regards and love. |
| posted by Alexandra on 08.11.03 i keep telling myself this is not real but it is, and i can't stop crying. dan, come home so i can hug you..i don't know what to do or say to make this better and im so scared. brian is in shock. he kept saying that matt would hug him when ten grand came to play shows in wichita, and he was so looking forward to seeing them again and buying the new record and now, he just...doesn't know. life is so precious. we listen to some ten grand in the car and again i couldnt stop crying. so much talent, such a young life cut so short for no reason at all. andrea and amber and clint want to see you too...clint and amber were talking about middle school, when they werent even sure matt was real because when you talked about him he sounded like a god...we all miss you and love you, and chris and me and a bunch of other people are coming over when you get home to give you tons of hugs. please be okay everyone.. |
| posted by jonny bee on 08.11.03 no matter how cheesy it sounds matty d. was a role model [for me at least] he stuck to his guns and truly loved those he cared about. i dont know man............its a sad day for everyone. |
| posted by aaron mader on 08.11.03 matt, you were my dawg. you beat us in b-ball last time , and that means you win forever baby. you always blocked me out and got the rebound. good hustle. you were my guy, and i love you. to the family, he would always talk about how much you meant to him. to the band, you have no idea how much we are thinking about you. "one room is better than none." davico forever. |
| posted by =Troy= on 08.11.03 It's truly amazing to see all the people's lives Matt has touched on this guestbook alone... I can't say anything that hasn't already been said, but i just wish i had gotten to know him better... seeing The Vidablue/Ten Grand was probably the greatest thing to happen to our local music scene in quite some time. They never failed to keep me moving. I want to thank Matt for giving me that, and i express my deepest sorrows to the Davis family. Nothing is harder than losing someone so influential. |
| posted by Sean Agnew on 08.11.03 My deepest sympathies go out to all of matt's friends and family. I only met Matt once, but that interaction was enough to make me fall in love with his band. When they played Philadelphia, he turned me and all of my friends, who are some of the most jaded, cynical, cranky people ever, back into excited, smirking, wide eyed kids with enthusiasm. Like that moment when you went to your first show, and you were just overwhelmed and couldn't help but smile from ear to ear. He gave his it his all on stage, putting everything he could into his guitar and mic. I worked my way from the back up the room, right up front, trying do that weird nodding/rocking back and forth dance in time with the music. Reading some of the comments left on this board, it's amazing to think about the amount of impact he had on people around the world. Sometimes the brightest stars burn too quickly, but we should be thankful for when they crossed our paths at one point or another. We'll miss you. xoxox |
| posted by al on 08.11.03 my band had the good fortune to play with vida blue (and then ten grand) a few times, the first being in frederick, maryland. after finishing their set, matt came to us and mentioned the importance of minorities in hardcore. if nothing else, matt has been an inspiration since then - to me and many others in this area alone - as well as one of the best writers/lyricists in any genre or subset of music. i'll always remember the too breif conversations and the shows...thank you matt. al/hobis |
| posted by rickyfitts on 08.11.03 matt, thank you so much for all you have done for us. you helped us with our first tour. we learned so much from you, more than we can ever thank you for. when we needed advice, you gave it, and you gave it up HUGE! if i said you were a huge influence on us, i would be lying because there are no words to describe what you have done for us...and obviously many others. you will live on in all of our thoughts and spirits. we're all picking up the tourch where you left off buddy. we love you so much.--kody, matt, casey, and dan |
| posted by bronson on 08.11.03 absolutely crushing. i cant find the words to express... just a story then; a few years ago i was mixing what was to be the last Brazil show. matt was there but the other two guys blew it off, but matt being who he is did the entire set by himself. just just him and his guitar. he took a handful of 2 minute hardcore songs and transoformed them into the most amazing solo performance i'd ever seen, and probably never played them before like that. gut-wrenching. amazing. in front of maybe 10 people. matt and i talked about getting the songs on tape, just like that, but of course... |
| posted by christian on 08.11.03 that sucks and i've only ever had one conversation with him, and loved his amazing music. my heart goes out to friends and family. stay strong |
| posted by xchiristianx on 08.11.03 dude i remember sein ten grand at cuads halloween show in vegas and bein shocked how good these doods were matt mad was a roll model for the diverse kids in hardcore man im mad sad to here this new i wish his family and friends nothing but love -christian x702x |
| posted by aaron odell on 08.11.03 matts music, and life, and personality, were all truly amazing, he could touch peoples hearts and emotions without even speaking to you personally, and then if you ever got the chance to meet him, he put out such a warm positive vibe, it was amazing. matt we'll be greatly missed, and we will not forget him when hes gone, dont doubt that. my love goes out to all of ten grand and all the people that cared about him, his friends, family, and molly...... you were a legend in your own right, youll be missed greatly, and never forgotten. |
| posted by Tina de la Cruz on 08.11.03 thingsfallapartÖ I miss you, like everyone else, I miss you like crazy my friend. Itís been too long and too late. You hopeless romantic dreamerÖ took all the risks to create reality ñ understanding passion and love came from within and not the academic tenets of the big U. Iíve watched you and thought of youÖ even in my drug-induced phase, I remembered everything. So proud of you completely true to your craft and your beliefsÖ while I could not pull my own weight. Downright fucking amazing, to hear your voice on a quick phone call from the Metro. Iím sorry everything I say is so fucking clichÈ. All I want to do is sit and talk like we used to every day, when your roommates were crazy and the opposite sex drove us madÖ one more chance to catch upÖ I moved out west to start back where I left off four years before, while you were creating, being, living four years to now and forever, you crazy beautiful boy. You have always been something Matty, you always will beÖ I will never forget my friend. I never have. Thank you for being a writer. Thank you for being a musician. Thank you for believing in sXe when the rest of us were so insecure we either tried to peer pressure others or simply left pure friendships for a 15 minute fix. Thank you for respect, for trust, for honesty, for a Handle With Care heart. Thank you for being you. |
| posted by pete_is_selfish on 08.11.03 That's awful... what with being Australian I never met or talked to the guy, but the music he was involved in making really means something to me. My heart goes out to those who knew Matt. Judging from all that is written here, it sounds like even though his life was short, he's someone who will never be forgotten. |
| posted by luke younger on 08.11.03 this is terrible. what else can i say except it was an absolute pleasure to meet and hang out with you earlier this year in nottingham and london. my thoughts go out to matt's family, and the rest of the band. |
| posted by Jan on 08.11.03 I've met Matt right at the time I needed to in my life... Totally amazed by his charisma and sense for melody we played this show together, made the best pasta, had great conversations about our love for music, God, girls... For me, it was a bless to hang out with 10G and William in the Netherlands and Belgium. Matt,i wanna thank you for your wisdom during our conversations... My thoughts are with Matt's family, Joel, Zach, Bob, William E. Whitmore and everybody devastated by Matt's death...x |
| posted by Mike Diver, aka The Gink on 08.11.03 I'm not going to pretend to know all about Matt. I didn't. But for the few hours that I was in his company he was really something. I'm useless at leaving messages. Needless to say he'll be missed by many, many more people than those that post on this site. Rest in peace Matt. |
| posted by Jonathon on 08.11.03 When things like this happen, everything starts to develop a certain profundity. I haven't been able to sleep all night. I went for a walk, the streets were empty, and I heard crickets for the first time this year. I don't know if they were always there or if I just wasn't paying attention before. The sky was really clear. I saw a star just to the left of the moon that looked noticeably brighter than any of the others. I couldn't help but think it was Matt. I hope they have the HISCO in Heaven, because I never even got to get on the damn thing because I hate computers. They can't replace the face to face. Bob, Zach, Joel and Matt - every time we played with you guys I reminded at least one of you that you were doing everything right - that you were everything a band should be. It stands. You are our favorite band to play with for so many reasons. I have never in all of my life known a band to have such brotherhood amongst them. It carries through in the music in ways that are incredibly rare. You guys always come up in conversations in the van or at practice in that context. You set the bar for us. Someone is always asking when we were going to Iowa City again for our seemingly monthly round - it just came up again recently. We always look forward to it with a tone of love, respect and humor. Matt was always a part that. Walking to Pancheros with us and gawking at the drunken spectacles walking down the street. Talking shit to us on e-mail about having no game on the court. I have dreams about bands who have been my heroes since I was a kid. It's weird. Kiss, Metallica, Iron Maiden, Rush. You know - things change. I've had two dreams about Ten Grand now - one I think I wrote to you guys about. It is not often when I see a band play that my spirit is moved or that I get a lump in my throat. But every fucking time. The set at Freedom Fest stands out. It just floored me - it was the only time in my life that I have not wanted to follow a band at a show - and you guys are our friends! We were nervous when the soundguy put on Pantera while we were setting up and the drunk bushwhackers started beating the hell out of each other in the "pit." Matt was standing in front of me and said, "Play that first song on the record. I love that song." So when we did, I looked up and saw him say, "Yeah!" and pump his fist in front of him with enthusiasm. It was the most flattering things I think I've ever had happen while playing a show. Every time you asked us to play anywhere with you, it was an honor and a privelege. My favorite place to see you was at the Babylon in Minneapolis. I think you were the only band that ever sounded good in that room. The utility lights you brought with them would cast Matt's huge, thrashing shadow against the white walls. He had grace and sincerity that you could only know if you saw it. But it's 6:30 and I gotta go to work. It's going to be hard to explain to the cube dwellers of the 9-5 that I've lost a friend who lived a life they could never imagine. There's so much to say that I could write for hours. Bob, Zach, Joel and Matt, we love you guys so much. And Matt, I'm saying it to you this time (again) - you did everything the way a band should. And you ended on top. I miss you. |
| posted by jason p on 08.11.03 i remember the first time i met Matt, he was here in Mpls and we had been out at Hard Times and dan's car got towed. the three of us walked all the way across town to get home. it was only september i think, but it seemed really cold. a good bonding experience for a first impression. this is starting to sink in now and it really sucks...my sympathy goes out to bob, joel, and zach-hopefully i'll see you guys again soon. my friends and i always talk about how amazing ten grand is. always "in the zone". and how matt is always really serious on stage and everybody else would be joking around the whole time, but still putting on the greatest performance...what a great guy. i'll miss you buddy. |
| posted by . on 08.11.03 sun is rising here and it's wrong. how can everything keep going? does it know what it's doing? the way you lived and the music you played and the person you were. you never took one day for granted. you really always did have a hug for me and for everyone. mother teresa gave more hugs than you... maybe. this is unquantifiable. you are #1 quality people. this makes no sense. thanx for playing in your living room and in our living room. thanx for every fucking show thanx for everything. thanx for YOU. i asked you what your first word was as a baby and you said "Maytag" i remember at wendy's you and Will both ate double triple cheese burgers... six patties each... ....this is unbelievable. BJWZ and your family and friends are in my prayers. you will be missed and never forgotten. what i am saying here is infinitezmal to the contrabution you gave in every moment. I feel so bad for those who were so much closer to you than i was. i can't even start. ...they don't know it but you are the reason why there are people wearing trucker hats in LA and NYC. Matt, you rocked and you are the rock. bradley |
| posted by pascal from germany on 08.11.03 this is terrible. i really don't know what i can say... i guess i wished it wasnt true. |
| posted by steve cat on form on 08.11.03 there's very little i can really say other than i'm really shocked and really sad and there are precious few people as cool as matt in the world and it fucking sucks that now there's one less. peace xx |
| posted by teresa mc on 08.11.03 matt is amazing.. he was the type of person that everyone should have grace their lives.... thanks for always sticking up for me and taking care of me at muscatine.. i cannot tell you all how sad i feel and how much i will miss seeing his face..i'm soo sorry joel, bob, zach,and the families involved just be safe and know we are all here for you.. i love you. teresa |
| posted by aaron hefel on 08.11.03 all i can think about is how great it was to know someone like matt, and how fucked it is that he is gone. every project i was able to see made me realize how much of an asset he was to music. to his family and friends, i am deeply sorry for this loss. |
| posted by chelsea on 08.11.03 I give my sympathies to all of Matt Davis's friends and family. May his music live on.. and on.. and on.. |
| posted by Kelly on 08.11.03 No one deserves to go that young. This is terribly tragic and though I never had a chance to meet any member of this band, your music said more than one could hope to say in a million words. Rest in peace. |
| posted by Mich on 08.11.03 Matt, we met overhere in Belgium (Pit's) and in the States (Fireside)...I can't believe this happened... Our sympathy goes to the bandmembers and friends and family of Matt.. This is just terrible... Mich & Hitch (Belgium) |
| posted by *TROY* on 08.11.03 this is beyond sad news . i only met matt once at a show i set up for them here in louisville. now i read this it truly brings a tear to my eye . i hope all is well for his friends and family . he will be missed by everyone . r.i.p. and godspeed Troy |
| posted by jeff allen on 08.11.03 i really don't know what to say. words don't even begin to describe anything about how i feel right now. matt davis was one of the most amazing people i have ever met, always willing to talk about obscure hip-hop and play aggressive defense on the basketball court. he will be truly missed. to the boys: our thoughts are with you up in minneapolis. we love you more than life itself. you wrote the book. jeff/tpc |
| posted by Nick Sakes on 08.11.03 I need some help here. I am in the band Sicbay and we were set to play 5 shows with Ten Grand this week. I talked to Joel yesterday and we sort of came to a little conclusion that yes, we will play all the shows except the Iowa City show, which will be cancelled. Now, today, it sounds incredibly difficult. I don't know what to do. I think Matt would have wanted us to play. Please email me with your thoughts and advice. Thanks. Nick |
| posted by bill on 08.11.03 For what is it to die, But to stand in the sun and melt into the wind? And when the Earth has claimed our limbs, Then we shall truly dance. -Kahlil Gibran you will be missed matt. be sure to look in on us from time to time. |
| posted by johnathan on 08.11.03 i've know matt since he lived down the hall from me in the dorms. even then he made me laugh and think cause he was super smart and super funny. i always l always greatly looked forward to seeing him. he touched many peoples hearts. zach, joel, bob. matt's parents and everyone else he's touched, i'm so sorry. rest in peace. |
| posted by Crystal Derifield on 08.11.03 Although I only met Matt a few times when the band came back to Joel's to crash, you guys were all so incredible and loving. I always got a hug from everyone and Matt was always smiling. He was an awesome guy and I'll always consider him part of the family as I do the rest of the band. My heart goes out to each and every person who knew this amazing guy.. This is the only way I know to express my feelings. So this is for the band. Matt Davis Always Remembered I know you guys are hurting I can see the pain inside Matt was the most amazing man You could ever see in your eyes His heart was unending Loving everyone around His love is still showing When the tears are streaming down God has pulled him near now Showing he only takes the best And God has chosen Matt today Because his heart exceeds the rest An astonishing band member Of a group they named ìTen Grandî A love he shared with everyone Just singing with that band There arenít enough words to describe him He was an extraordinary man My heart goes out to everyone Especially Zak, Joel, Bob and Dan Well now heís in heaven And heís looking down on you Smiling as he always did And hoping you are too So enjoy your days in heaven, Matt And send your music down We will hear it as the wind blows by It will raise us when weíre downÖ God Bless, We love you MattÖ Crystal Derifield |
| posted by Clarissa on 08.11.03 I'm so sorry. My deepest sympathies. |
| posted by josh patrick quinn on 08.11.03 i really don't know what to say. i can't believe matt is gone. i only met matt a few times but he treated me as if we had been friends for years. the first time we met was at a vida blue show years ago and he walked up to me at the show and just started a conversation because i was sitting by myself. he was a great kid and i will miss him. my heart goes out to his family, friends, band mates, etc...rest in peace! |
| posted by marco on 08.11.03 i've met him in italy when they played with my band and forstella ford.we shared beautiful times i just can't believe his gone.my last memory of him is when we hugged after their show he was a great performer and for what i've known a great person.we miss you thanks for giving us beautiful music and companionship. raein |
| posted by greg on 08.11.03 I am so sorry to hear of Matt passing away. It's really unfair. I was looking forward to many more years of Ten Grand/Vida Blue and losing Matt is a stunner. |
| posted by Anthony on 08.11.03 My name is Anthony and I'm from Sunderland in the UK. My band played with 10 Grand in Newcastle on their last tour of Europe. I was very happy to be playing with a band I really liked, even though I'd only heard a few of the songs they just clicked with me. They were (are) a great band and Matt was a very humble guy and very easy to talk to. He also plugged alot of upcoming gigs in the Newcastle area after their set to try and get people to go to them, something a touring band hasn't done in these parts more or less ever. I can't say I knew him really well because I didn't but for that night he was amazing, on and off stage. |
| posted by Amber on 08.11.03 I really dont know what to say other than that I am here for my friends who are greiving...Matt you will always be an inspiration to your fans. |
| posted by Hannah on 08.11.03 I'm sorry. |
| posted by Vincent Chung on 08.11.03 He was great in the fact that he always sent me touching emails after reading columns I've written, despite only meeting me once a couple of years ago. His passion for life was rarely matched and it showed whenever he played live. Matt Davis will be missed greatly by all the people Vida Blue/Ten Grand touched over the years. My sympathies go out to his family, the band, and his girlfriend. |
| posted by Rob Fromuphold on 08.11.03 Matt - I first met you in 96'. I was wearing a Strongarm shirt and you picked me out and said 'hi,' since we shared that as a common interest. You jammed with us a couple times, hung out, and then we lost touch. Since then, we've seen each other a few times over the years, but mostly, you've stayed in touch with shared friends. Every time I saw you, you would give me a big hug and be truly interested in what I had to say - no matter what. It's your "human-ness" that helped make this life a little bit better. I wish that I had stayed in touch with you more, but life is embittered by regrets unfortunately. You were humble, and a great person - You already are missed infinitely more than I'm sure you had ever thought while here. Rob |
| posted by Itunim on 08.11.03 GoodBye Matt |
| posted by Friday on 08.11.03 even though i did not know matt personally or the band, i can say that he helped inspire a lot of things with me, along with the rest of the band. this truly came as a shock. the punk scene lost a great person, muscisian, and im sure a great friend. much love goes out to friends and family. you have my support. -friday |
| posted by keef on 08.11.03 i am sorry. i am sad. |
| posted by JP on 08.11.03 i don't know if this will ever sink in fully, my heart pours out to you, i wish i was there to give out some hugs. i wish i wish i wish |
| posted by Tetzloff on 08.11.03 If thou workest at that which is before thee, following right reason seriously, vigorously, calmly, without allowing anything else to distract thee, but keeping thy divine part pure, as if thou shouldst be bound to give it back immediately; if thou holdest to this, expecting nothing, fearing nothing, but satisfied with thy present activity according to nature, and with heroic truth in every word and sound which thou utterest, thou wilt live happy. And there is no man who is able to prevent this. - Marcus Aurelius We Love you Matt. |
| posted by jason on 08.11.03 my first instinct is to run home and call matt. i met him when i was fifteen years old, he was in the first band that really affected me. i talked to him and kept up and drove to the quad cities and iowa city all the time to see his bands and in the last two years he's been an incredible friend to me and i still can't imagine life without him and want to come home and hug matt. matt, i love you and my heart goes out to dan, joanna, matt's family, bob, joel, zach, will, and anyone that was ever touched by matt. i start missing him every time he leaves town, and this time he's not coming back. |
| posted by Bob's Dad on 08.11.03 I am so very sorry - Our hearts go out to Matt's family and friends and his band family - time, good family and good friends will help endure this tragic loss |
| posted by corey on 08.11.03 matt was the most unpretentious and sincere person i've known. |
| posted by Todd Takes on 08.11.03 Matt was a drivin individual that always offered something to someone but when you saw him, talked to him, watched him perform, he forced himself upon you. He forced his energy and drive upon you. You couldnt help but recognize his love for music and people. You only wished you could understand him better, get an idea of what he had inside of him that fueled him. I never was able to get inside that head of his and only wish I had more time, more opportunities in the future to do so. He gave his love to so many, so often. It is a true loss and i offer my most sincere condolences to his family, friends and to the boys who loved him so dearly, played with him so emotionally and passionately and lived with him day in and day out in their travels. Matt will be missed by so many and will never be forgotten. |
| posted by shannin on 08.11.03 matt was a truly beautiful and gifted person and i am honored to have worked with him. it's difficult to find words that can adequately speak to our sadness here at southern records. we extend our deepest sympathy to his family, ten grand and his other close friends. he will be eternally remembered. shan |
| posted by rachel on 08.11.03 i love you, matt, always have, always will. all of you are in my prayers, that's all i can manage, really. -r |
| posted by adam on 08.11.03 I had the honor of sharing the bill with Matt and the Vida Blue/Ten Grand on a couple of occasions and this deeply saddens me to know the world has lost such a truely talented and amazing person. |
| posted by Chris Tekulvi on 08.11.03 I am so sorry to hear this. My deepest condolances go to Bob, Joel, Zach, and Matt's family. This is completely devestating and shocking. Matt was so young and only great things were going to occur for him. We will all miss him. My prayers go out to Matt, The rest of Ten Grand and Matts Immediate family. |
| posted by scotty on 08.11.03 some things i will always remember about matt: giving my friend matt one of his dreads and calling it the dumbest christmas present ever perkins after the atom show meeting him in chicago a couple of time on chance and then he gave me the first ten grand button matt babysitting the drunk trying to keep will from running across the tables telling me that the one person i hated from IC was part of the reason he got out of town. pretending to be interested in my robot collection riding to wal mart with him and the boys and going to burger kind with jay z playing loud. everyone singing. matt was driving while everyone on the plywood shelf in the back rolled around like dice God definately broke the mold after he made matt. i love you matt. see you before you know it. |
| posted by Jonathon on 08.11.03 I'm sitting here at work waiting for details and it sucks. So now I'm thinking about the possibility of Matt's musical afeterlife - a trio with Charles Mingus and John Bonham. That would be fucking righteous. |
| posted by ben on 08.11.03 i cannot fathom that our friend matt is no longer with us. my bandmates and i were discussing matt, zach, joel, and bob on friday at rehearsal; i was wearing my vidablue shirt yesterday; i walked out this morning and saw a record matt recommended to me a couple of years ago, and i thought, "how great of him to always be interested in what i'm doing, how things are, and how i can broaden my horizons." matt was always ready with a big hug when we saw each other. matt was always ready with kind words and sincere encouragement and support. matt was always ready to take me and my mates in to his own home when we needed a place to stay and rest. so many people have been affected by matt's warmth and kindness, and i hope that matt's family and friends are always aware of how much he was loved. ben, chicago. |
| posted by bill on 08.11.03 i have been watching this guestbook grow at an astronomical rate. last night i sat to read it with Bob and after reading for less than 3 minutes we refreshed the page and saw that more than a dozen more people had just posted. this is the greatest testament to matt's life and all of the people that he touched. thank you everyone for the phonecalls - and the posts. everyone sends their love and it helps so much. |
| posted by kelsea on 08.11.03 my heart goes out to matt's family and friends...i'm so sorry. |
| posted by mm on 08.11.03 CROW FROWNS Is he his own strength?/ What is its signature?/ Or is he a key, cold-feeling/ To the fingers of prayer?// He is a prayer-wheel, his heart hums./ His eating is the wind-/ Its patient power of appeal./ His footprints assail infinity// With signatures: We are here, we are here./ He is long waiting for something/ To use him for everything/ Having so carefully made him// Of nothing. -Ted Hughes "Crow" i would have shared this with you... |
| posted by Mike on 08.11.03 the people that have passed away in my life are always people that i wish i spent more time with, and got to know more. i wish i had gotten to see ten grand play more than the one time at that bowling alley in chicago. he was a captivating musician and a man that loved many. my sister toured and traveled with matt recently and spent a lot of time with him. thinking about your little sister on the road with a band isn't the easiest thing to do for an older brother, but matt was the exception. matt was a gifted man that put all the energy he had into his music, family and friendships. i've learned a lot from him, and like a lot of other people, really only know a little about what matt was about...i wish i had known more first hand. |
| posted by Zak / Thick on 08.11.03 We're sitting here listening to ëThis Is The Way To Ruleí heartbroken. My deepest sympathies to Mattís friends and family - youíre in my thoughts and prayers. |
| posted by Shawn R. on 08.11.03 shit, i just found out about this, i was going to see Matt at the show at Gabes this week, i had something i wanted to give him, so many times seeing the Vida Blue and Ten Grand, Sergio Leon at the FSU etc, all the old side projects, on the street in Iowa City, joking around, always laughing being sarcastic, Matt always had a Hug even for those he only saw once in a great while, Matt and Ten G. gave me so much spirit and hope for being a kid playing music from Iowa, being a punk rock kid and doing things on your own terms, and he still will, this is such a shock, Matt was a kind, and generous person who stuck to his guns and had real conviction, i repected him alot, and he will be missed. hearts to-the Davis Family, Dan, Molly, Bob, Joel, and Zach -peace |
| posted by bridget on 08.11.03 my thoughts are with you, joel, bob, and zach. |
| posted by emily on 08.11.03 matt- always passing out hugs and hellos, endless musical inspiration to many, writing beautiful/sad words; you will be missed by so many people. i am sorry- to everyone that matt touched and was close to. |
| posted by Matty B Spokane on 08.11.03 Man!#? TenGrand Bros, Matt will be missed here in Spokane. We are here for ya, Joel, Bob, and Zack. We love you guys, and will miss Matt greatly. Love, Self Inheritance |
| posted by calx on 08.11.03 church street gives us all another ghost. thank you, matt. |
| posted by adam gilhespy on 08.11.03 i am listening now, not knowing how to react. although i only met matt once i was taken by him, as i think everyone was when his band played in newcastle, uk. everyone i have talked to about matt is in shock. my thoughts are with you and the rest of the guys. thanks, matt. all my love ad. |
| posted by on 08.11.03 Matt was an amazing person and a truly original individual. He is the embodiement of art, movement, ideas in motion, community. I wish I had gotten to know him more, but the few times we did hang out in North Carolina and in Philly were great. I am sorry he has been taken from this earth and returned to the stars before his could truly rise. I'm deeply saddened. Much, much love and peace to his family and to his friends. alex smith |
| posted by taylor in baton rouge on 08.11.03 i'm so sorry for your loss. matt was a real nice guy. it's shame things like this happen to such good people. i just wanted you guys to know ya'll are in my thoughts and all that kind of stuff. baton rouge was permanently altered by the ten grand show, and i don't think it will ever be the same. matt was one of the only punks i ever met that admitted to being a steely dan fan. everytime i hear peg, i'll think of you, matt. good luck guys. this is when you're gonna need it.... |
| posted by Jason on 08.11.03 this sucks |
| posted by brad on 08.11.03 i met matt a few times, he was on of the nicest people i ever met, its sad when people who have such a spark, like him die... youll be missed, brad |
| posted by ellen on 08.11.03 Just remember the last time you saw Matt, because chances are he gave you a huge hug and made you smile and laugh and feel all good about yourself at least dozen times. It's profoundly sad to realize that the world needs so many more people like Matt and yet he's gone. |
| posted by heather weil on 08.11.03 time, death and space are hard to understand, but love isn't. you will always and forever be my oldest, dearest, best friend. i love you matthew, and i hope you're happy and at peace. it's hard for me to comprehend that you're gone -- but i'll definitely never forget you. you spent your life making not just me, but all of these other people happy. although this is devastating, i'm trying my hardest to remember all of the plans we made so many years ago. it's hard to believe it, but this fall we would have been friends for 9 years. words can not express how much i love you, and will miss you. best wishes to the davis family, friends, band members, and other loved ones. <> Good men must die, but death cannot kill their names. -- Proverb |
| posted by geoff reu on 08.11.03 ...i met matt about 5 years ago now in ia city and i think i can safely say that i have met very few people who were as intensely passionate about life, friendship, and music as he was. i feel privleged to have known him and shared numerous experiences with him and am deeply saddened that the world has lost such an amazing individual. my sincerest sympathies go out to all who knew matt, especially to his family and joel, bob, and zach- he loved all of you intensely and i know you shared the same feelings for him. |
| posted by barker on 08.11.03 holy shit. thinking about you guys--love yas barker |
| posted by oliver on 08.11.03 this is very saddening, i saw ten grand in may in germany. i wish everyone involved strength to cope with this big loss |
| posted by Ian Meyer on 08.11.03 Matt, I miss and love you very much. |
| posted by Jay on 08.11.03 I didnt know Matt, but this made me really sad. My condolences to his friends and family. This guestbook is a testament to the impact he had on so many people and speaks volumes of the person he was. |
| posted by courtney on 08.11.03 i'll never forgett this, he had soo much more to give, one of the most talented guys ever, not to mention one of the nicest and incredibly friendly, im glad i got to see ten grand the times that i did... he will be a legend my love goes out to the remaining memebers of ten grand and matts family |
| posted by Matt / Darediablo on 08.11.03 We're all in shock. We're proud and happy that we got to play with you all at SXSW this year -- seeing you perform, and meeting everyone, was a great experience. Matt was an inspiring performer and a warm, welcoming person. We're thinking of you all, and we're here if there's any way we can help. Matt Jake Chad |
| posted by esther on 08.11.03 My condolences to everyone who knew him. I'm another person who just met Matt a little while ago. I was feeling incredibly uncomfortable and dorky at the time, but he immediately made me feel at ease. I didn't know him well, but I'll miss him. |
| posted by Dominic on 08.11.03 I lived with Matt and we made music together and he was at home with music and the people who listened to what he did. In the two years that we lived together I saw that Matt spent 100% of his time finding ways to give his music to people; all of the people who made music with him, and all of the people who listened get to give back now. I love you Matt and this really sucks. |
| posted by on 08.11.03 more people have queued up the new ten grand album on flie sharing programs in the last 24hours than i have ever seen. i have spoken to some of them about this event, and they have ALL offered there stories of matt. even in death he is bringing people together across the world and inspiring them with his music. i think that speaks for itself. |
| posted by Al on 08.11.03 I didn't know Matt, but I met him once in June of this year when my band supported Ten Grand in London. He couldn't have been nicer or more friendly towards us that night, and we really appreciated it... My thoughts go out to his friends and family. |
| posted by dub steve on 08.11.03 i still cannot find the words to describe how i feel, and maybe its just because there are no words to describe how amazing matt really is/was. i will really miss and love you forever dear friend. |
| posted by Mitch Cheney on 08.11.03 Every once in awhile you meet someone who forces humble reflection on your own actions and philosophies. Every once in awhile your spine gets twisted 180 degrees from the palpable energy that a musician gives to you in his/her perfomance. Every once in awhile I'm forced to see these people who could actually change the way we all approach each other and our surroundings. Every once in awhile I find myself unable to do anything but cry. Tonight, when I get home, I'm going to kiss my wife softly on her pregnant belly and pray (to something) that my child ends up being 1/10th of the man that Matt Davis was. I am in complete shock. My deepest love and condolence goes out to Bob, Joel and the Big Boy. You were truly fortunate to be in the presence of wuch a kind-hearted soul. Much love, Mitch Cheney |
| posted by steve c on 08.11.03 i wrote all of you once and explain what one of your/his songs meant to me. he gave me his time and effort and wrote me back the most wondeful explanation of what it was about. it was a harrowing song and it was a tough thing for him to explain, he didnt have to, but he was such a prince he did. he did because he cared. he did because he *knew*. tonight i light a candle for the first time in years and i play making a building to myself one more time. from glasgow, scotland - matt you will never be forgotten. x |
| posted by brian case on 08.11.03 in a year that seems to be claiming the lives of the the independent community on an almost weekly basis, this is yet another huge loss. matt was an inspiration to people watching him perform as well as to those who knew him personally. take care - b. |
| posted by ned on 08.11.03 I had never heard of this band until yesterday. that alone makes me sad, but the reason i heard was because a friend of mine was friends with matt. i'm so sorry for the loss of a great singer. |
| posted by bob on 08.11.03 My deepest sympathies to all the members of the band, to their fans and most of all to Matt's family and friends. When something like this happens so suddenly it makes a person re-evaluate everything. It makes so little sense, and it reminds one of just how fragile life really is. |
| posted by justin miller on 08.11.03 man, i just met matt @ deadpan alley recently. right away he was such a nice person. i was looking forward to getting to know him better. my sympathy goes out to his good friends and family. i know he was a great human being. |
| posted by mark shaw on 08.11.03 my god. Matt always had this glimmer in his eye as though he knew something beautiful that you didn't know, but he was going to try and show you what he knew in his music and actions. Over the years some of the best times of my life were when Ten Grand/Vida Blue was around in Minneapolis or other places where I was. Matt was always there with a hug and a warm smile. Thank you all for everything you've ever done. Bob, Joel, Zack: I am so sorry for you guys to the point that words will never express. I will see you soon. You have my love and support. To Matt....... |
| posted by melinda brandt on 08.11.03 matt was and always will be one of the most important people to me. matt meant something... he meant everything to the people he shared his life with. i dont know what else to say. i love and miss you, matt. |
| posted by danny on 08.11.03 it's not hyperbole to say that matt davis and the rest of the ten grand changed my life. meeting/playing with them restored my faith in punk/hardcore music. matt was one of the coolest, most honest, approachable people ever. period. i'm flabbergasted at the fact that i'll never again see him, share a bill with him, talk to him, laugh with him, etc. i wish i could be there at his memorial service. my love goes out to all of matt's friends and family. |
| posted by Chris Jern on 08.11.03 we're all so very devastated to lose such a wonderful person - condolences to the Davis family and friends and let's all remember good times in order to share 'em with others - all over the world - who have been fortunate enough to ever meet Matt, or play a gig with the band, or put 'em up, or what-have you.. the sole consolation here for me is to see the output of love for Matt shown here by those he touched in his short life.. Matt Davis made his mark on the world, definitely, and those who were lucky enough to have known Matt or even to have met him are all the better for the experience.. rest in peace our brother.. we love you and we will never forget the way that you shared your love of life and music and everything else with us all. |
| posted by Rob Fromuphold on 08.11.03 Matt Davis - The man of a thousand hugs, a million verses, and one honest smile. The tears may fall but we will not drown sailing, floating, drifting, in this vessel of memories your smile is a beacon; nudging us to stay the course I dunno, I'm not so eloquent with the poetry/lyrics - but Matt does this to people. |
| posted by everyone in the paper chase on 08.11.03 we are so sorry to hear this news. please take our deepest sympathies. |
| posted by michelle & doug daugherty on 08.11.03 As much of a blow as this is to the Iowa/midwest music community, we cannot even imagine the depth of loss felt by his family and close friends. We hope you find the strength to move forward. |
| posted by Sicbay on 08.11.03 I just wanted to let everyone know that I appreciate the input on this week's scheduled shows we had with Ten Grand. We of course are still on for all the shows, with the exception of the Gabe's show tomorrow, which I was told would be cancelled. If the show is in fact NOT cancelled, can someone please let me know ASAP. We know that Matt would not a happy if we didn't play. What would Matt do? The answer is pretty obvious. Thank you for the emails. --Nick |
| posted by molly g. on 08.11.03 Guys, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you. |
| posted by Michele on 08.11.03 I just saw a screening of the film Afro-Punk yesterday in Chicago. I am sad to see that this young man has passed, he had so much intelligence, energy, and talent. I hope his family and friends find comfort in that fact that Matt was obviously loved by a lot of people, judging from the amount of posts here. In Sympathy-Michele |
| posted by james from racebannon on 08.11.03 wow. i'm shocked. matt was definitely an awesome kid. my heart goes out to his family and to the band. i can't imagine losing a member of the band this way after playing together for so long. my thoughts are with you, joel, bob, and zach. matt will truly be missed by so many people, and i'm one of them. at least we have his music. i think all of the bands that were friends with ten grand should do a tribute comp together...we'd definitely do it. anyone else into the idea? all my love, matt.......james/racebannon |
| posted by ben on 08.11.03 it's been hell at work trying to figure out how to deal with the loss of matt. nobody here knows what he meant to me; a sincere, loving young man, a good friend even if distance and time didn't allow me to be as close as i would've liked. reading these messages from people all over the world who have been touched by matt is my only solace, the only comfort i can find right now. my thoughts run back to the first time i even met matt, bob, zach, and joel. it was my 2nd show that i had ever played in a band, and i was a dorky, nervous wreck. i'm sure we were horrible. this was nearly 4 years ago. all of the them, matt, bob, zach, and joel, were extremely kind and supportive about our set. then i saw them play. it was the most scary and emotional thing i had seen, the most enthralling live performance i had ever experienced. we all loaded out, then i had a big group hug/huddle with my bandmates and matt, bob, zach, and joel. after that we became friends, playing more together, supporting each other (at least in the audience, if not with a performance) when our bands would play in each others' towns, giving and receiving embraces and honestly kind words of friendship and encouragement. matt, bob, zach, and joel were there from the beginning for me, and i will always carry that with me as i live, communicate with others, and play music that expresses the otherwise inexpressible. with more love than i thought possible, ben chicago bencord@aol.com |
| posted by aaron may on 08.11.03 i didn't know you too well matt, but i feel a bond all the same. it reminds me of how much we come to rely on each other and not even know it. my heart goes out to you. |
| posted by Scot Diamond on 08.11.03 Words cannot express how Matt and Ten Grand have reached me within my heart. They helped make my start at Southern a most welcome and most loved one. Never before had I felt like one of the team... Ten Grand and Matt's love for music and its supporters was second to none. I still cannot believe what I am hearing, as this all is still taking its toll. Matt, I love you and will miss you... SOUTHERN will continue to celebrate all you have given us. |
| posted by byron on 08.11.03 So painful. I'll miss you my friend. |
| posted by thaddeus p.k. on 08.11.03 My condolences to all. This is terribly sad. Please let me know if or when there is a remembrance scheduled for Matt in Iowa City. |
| posted by mike on 08.11.03 we'll miss you, matt. |
| posted by Tuyet from Denver on 08.11.03 I only knew him for an evening. I helped book a show for his band. We talked; he thanked me; we hugged; and he smiled. It's funny how even the smallest memory can affect you so greatly. My deepest sympathies to Matt's family, friends, bandmates and every person he ever smiled at. |
| posted by jeff organ on 08.11.03 Whne I went to my first show in the Quad Cities, Matt and Brazil were the first band I saw play. His pedal broke and the last song was played with bass and drums, and matt just sang and sang. It was the moment in my life were all pretention was torn away from music and art and I know everybody in the audience shivered seeing such incredible sincerity and beauty. Matt was there when my band played our first show. He came up after we played and gave us the nest-egg of a compliment that probably kept us going for the first year easily. We exchanged stories about how we had hopes for our respective bands, but foremost, we just wanted to play and as long as there was a room and some people to make friends with, then we would could ask for nothing else. In the years to follow, I played the Brazil demo tape until it fell apart, spun the OTBU cd until I knew every breakdown, bought 5 copies of the first vidablue. 7" because friends would borrow it and not want to give it back, sat jaw-dropped and inspired listening to the test presses of the 10g's and vb's lp's, watching the poor video of Raise the Red Lantern I had, going to see Sergio Leone, and loving every minute of it. In Matt's passing, I lose a person that managed to change a huge part of my life. The hugs, the encouragement, the ribbing. He had enough guts to make my music great as well as his own. I will miss him more than I can even understand right now. We love you Matt. |
| posted by Johan (from Leiden) on 08.11.03 This is the first time I cried over someone who passed away while I only met him once. But he was all love and kindness and that really touched me.. All the strength support and love for the family, loved ones and friends...we'll miss him all |
| posted by BRIAN PETERSON / FIRESIDE BOWL on 08.11.03 not sure what to say, Matt was always so nice to everyone here in Chicago, I cannot imagine what his closest friends and family are going through, I hope they are doing ok. I never really got the chance to have a heart to heart with Matt, I was looking forward to getting to know him, he seemed like a very deep person, you could tell he was special, his spirit lives on through his music and all the people that were inspired by him. |
| posted by tom on 08.11.03 i didnt know matt, but i've seen, heard and enjoyed his work, and it's obvious from the messages here and elsewhere that he touched a lot of people and will be missed. my condolences to everyone. |
| posted by pulsar from Las Vegas on 08.11.03 I was lucky enough to see Ten Grand play twice here in Vegas and not only were they great live, but the band as a whole were truly nice guys. I got to talk to Matt a couple times and he was really nice and very smart. Its sad to see someone like this go. RIP :*( |
| posted by billy on 08.11.03 matt and i were not the closest friends, but we had a bond through punk rock for about 5 years now which made him like a brother to me. he was the type of guy who was always friendly, always positive and ready to rage...whether or not there were 300 people watching or 3... i first met all the vida blue/ten grand kids around 1998/1999.. whenever saetia toured the midwest we would invariably play at least one show with the vida blue guys and we were always struck by how wonderful they were as people and how fun they were to hang out with. without exception, matt will be missed and this is hearbreaking. ironically, the last time hot cross played with ten grand, the show got shut down after our set and i never got to watch them play ... it sucked then, but there was always the notion that i would see them again some time.. a few weeks ago i caught word of a posible ten grand tour in october and i was ready to try to play with them again.. condolences and massive amounts of love and respect to ten grand, matt's friends and matt's family.. and of course everlasting findness and affection for matt and his legacy. stay positive. much love and all of my thoughts billy hot cross / level-plane records family. |
| posted by Kevin Ware on 08.11.03 Over the last few years my life has been blessed with not only knowing Matt Davis, but also the kindness he carries. Our band went on tour and set up some stuff with Matt, things fell through and we actually just hung out in Iowa City for a week. The thing I like to remember most is the note Matt left for the other room mates at his house. It read:"BE NICE TO THE PEOPLE SLEEPING ON THE PORCH, THEY ARE FROM MY HOME!" I will remeber that note forever. Matt is the kind of person that could lift you up so high and fake letting you drop only to let you know you have a friend in him. I know that things have to change and I know that this is how some things work out. But for all those I can Help. You most likely have my phone number. I will always refer to Matt in the present tense because a person cannot die when at least one person is thinking about them. Matt, I love you and will miss you, Dan call when you need to. Don't feel obligated for my sake. Kevin Ware. |
| posted by jeremy king on 08.11.03 today is actually my birthday, and although i will be celebrating with friends and family, i can't help but feel a deep sadness for the loss of matt davis. i met matt through longtime friend joel, when (then) the vida blue stayed at my house in indy while on tour. he was so smart and funny and overall just an incredibly nice guy. he really surprised me once when my former band, upheaval, was playing out of town in peoria, illinois and matt showed up from iowa to see us play. i was floored that he showed up and we were both excited to see each other. like i said - an incredibly nice guy. my sincerest condolences go out to matt's family and his bandmates and brothers joel, bob, and zack. what a tremendous loss. god bless. |
| posted by Lauren on 08.11.03 You helped everyone with music. You shared music and supported music all the time. You never held back. You were a good cook, you baked all sorts of different types of pies. You could scream really loudly in the house too, your vocal cords were amazing! You made people laugh. You were easy to talk with. You made me feel good. You couldnít help it. You were always making people feel good. Matt I miss you. I see and hear you everywhere. |
| posted by andy on 08.11.03 i keep trying to write something that explains how important matt was to me as both a musician and a person, but right now it's really impossible. instead i'll just reiterate what everybody else knows - matt was a wonderful, kind person who always greeted me with a hug instead of a handshake. i will miss him greatly and i give my condolences to bob, zach and joel along with matt's family. |
| posted by k.p on 08.11.03 I didn't know him personally, I'd seen him play, and noticed the incredibly wonderful vibe he put off, he seemed to be an amazing individual. It appears that he touched many lives, my regards to his family, friends, and bandmates. RxIxP. |
| posted by Nathan from nymb / chinupchinup on 08.11.03 I just received the horrible news. My condolences to all of Matt's friends and family. Though we were never close, I feel grateful to have met Matt and to have shared the handful of shows we played together. It is apparent from all of these messages that he will be missed by many. |
| posted by jeremy honness on 08.11.03 I'll never forget my last memory of Matt. The fellas were traveling through Portland and put on a kick ass show as usual. After the show we kicked it at our house playing HORSE till 3am, which of course Matt, the athlete, won! The rest of us suckers drank too many beers to shoot straight. In the morning I stood over Matt and Bob, air guitaring Van Halen in my suit and tie, to wake 'em up for breakfast before they hit the road and I had to go to work. I'll never ever forget that warm smile I elicited from Matt that morning. Little did I know that would be one of the last. Matt I can't believe you are gone. You gave it 110%, you were full of compassion and had the biggest heart ever. My heart goes out to the Davis Family, the rest of the fellas and everbody else's life you touched. You are loved and will be greatly missed. |
| posted by dave on 08.11.03 sincere condolences to friends and family. the bands matt played in influenced my life. |
| posted by jen j on 08.11.03 matt was such a kind hearted individual. this is such a tragic thing to happen to such a wonderful person. i send my love to Everyone .. family friends band. my thoughts are with you. |
| posted by Noah on 08.11.03 He was compassion, dedication, positive, hilarious, intelligent, frank, encouraging, inspiring, and made music you only wished you could create. My love and thoughts go to Matt's family, to Bob, Joel, and Zach, to all of Matt's friends. All of us saying that we miss you is a gross understatement. Thank you for encouraging and inspiring me. |
| posted by skyler on 08.11.03 wow. my heart goes out to all you boys; joel, bob, zach. and of course to his family. this sucks. |
| posted by swayze on 08.11.03 matt was one of the most real and genuine guys I had the pleasure of meeting, getting to know, sharing a stage with, and just simply talking to. not about anything important or in particular, just talking. people like him are few and far between and they make life a bit easier to tolerate. you are gone, but will never be forgotten. you will be missed. all of my love and sympathies to the guys, family, and his friends. |
| posted by jay* on 08.11.03 ive only talked to matt two or three times in my life, but those talks showed me just how amazing he was. just a genuinely nice guy, and watching him play just completely inspired me. and hearing his music will continue to do so. my sympathy to his close friends and family. this is just too sad. |
| posted by jay kozel on 08.11.03 unfortunatley, i never had the chance to meet matt. i only know him through the legacy of incredible songs he created. i know that he will be sorely missed throughout the community. my condolences. |
| posted by Tyler on 08.11.03 my sympathy goes out to everyone that was close with Matt, or has ever had the opportunity to have met him...he is the most genuine person i have ever met, as most anyone can easily agree...Matt, we all love you and you will forever be deeply missed. goodbye. |
| posted by aaron & nnifer pierce on 08.11.03 I never knew Matt personally, but standing there watching him play it felt like i did... his sincere smile and gratefulness to his "fans" is so rare in most bands, and it will be sorely missed... God's love and comfort to Joel, Bob, Zack and all Matt's family... blessings... Aaron Pierce |
| posted by bryan w. guise on 08.11.03 The most fun guy to be with. A one of a kind friend. The only person on this planet who ever got my jokes. I don't know if he really understood my jokes but atleast he cared enough to laugh. That's MAtt. I'll miss him so much. |
| posted by Brendan on 08.11.03 This is a very terrible thing and I give Matt's family my sincerest blessing. |
| posted by johnc on 08.11.03 words can't describe.. matt will be very much missed here. |
| posted by on 08.11.03 http://www.cmhwak.net/forum/viewtopic.php?t=6279 |
| posted by tommy on 08.11.03 i'm numb at the thought that someone so heartfelt, and kind can be extinguished from our lives. my condolences to zach, bob, joel, and matt's family. you will be missed. |
| posted by christopher on 08.11.03 much love to matt. you will be dearly missed. |
| posted by Ian Judd on 08.11.03 Oh my god...This is such horrible news.I can't believe this happened.This is so sad.When I heard about this I was putinto the worst mood ever. I had the chance to meet matt 3 times when I saw Ten Grand 3 times this year in Spokane. Matt was just incredibly nice everytime I talked to him and he would always remember who I was and stuff. And he was just on of the nicest people I have ever met. This seems unreal.This shouldn't be happening. Matt Davis was one of the coolest people ever,and I'm not close friends with him or anything but I think it would be safe to say I am going to miss him.Ten Grand will live on forever... And I agree with the guy from Racebannon I think there should be a Ten Grand tribute album in memory of Matt. love to matt's friends and family,and the ten grand boys... Ian Judd |
| posted by mike zapata on 08.11.03 I was fortunate enough to live with Matt three years ago in IC. It was a home with good friends. It was a good time in my life and to share that with Matt was amazing. Matt taught me that dreams are consequential to your life, that you should follow them with everything you have and everything in your heart and mind. I will always keep that close. Matt, we will miss you and remember always your life and dreams. My heart goes out to his friends and family. Con amor para siempre...goodbye Pharaoh. |
| posted by Andy on 08.11.03 Matt was one of the warmest, most genuine people I have ever met. Every time I was around him the world seemed right. I will never forget standing on the coastline in California in the middle of the night, watching the ocean light up with the red and green flares of Roman candles, surrounded by good friends. That night I think caught the essence of Matt as I knew him - wild, free, full of spirit and love. We will miss you, Matt. |
| posted by brian t. quinn on 08.11.03 devastating.. Matt always greeted me with a smile. one of the most genuine people i've ever met. an incredible musician and wonderful man. unforgettable. my condolences to his family and the rest of ten grand. |
| posted by Joe Grimm on 08.11.03 There's nothing i can say that has not already been said... what a great guy. i hardly knew him. I'm sad. |
| posted by chris on 08.11.03 it is tragic to lose such a young and amazing human being. my heartfelt sympathies go out to his family, friends and bandmates. you will not be forgotten, matt. |
| posted by big john on 08.11.03 Thank you Matt for the couch to sleep on. Thank you Matt for the food to eat. Thank you Matt for the kind words and the kind heart. I will always remember your never ending drive and you kind heart. Thank you for everything you have done. |
| posted by jeff s on 08.11.03 man, what a blow. i met matt once when i did a show for ten grand in connecticut with brian f. i had never heard ten grand before. they had played a fest with my old band, jerome's dream, in wilkes barre, pa a few years before when they were still the vida blue, but i missed them. a friend of mine referred me to matt when i was trying to get a show in iowa. he was incredibly helpful, nice, and thoughtful. he helped me when he had never heard my band. he just had faith that we'd be good. so i returned the favor adn i was so pleasantly suprised when they began playing. his charisma shined through the music and i enjoyed watching and listening to them play immensely. i only spoke to him for 15 or 20 minutes, but it was nice. what a great person. what a terrible loss. to his family and close friends, my condolences. -jeff (the wind-up bird) |
| posted by jeremiah from peoria on 08.11.03 my heartgoes out to you boys and matts family - i cant believe hes gone and just wanted to thank you birds for rocking peoria on many occasions and to matt for always putting a 100% into his art and love, it was encouragement. god bless and rest in peace my friend. |
| posted by steve on 08.11.03 Matt was a genuinely good person, and we can all count ourselves lucky for having known him. I'm just thankful that he used his time to make so many amazing things. Joel, Bob, Zach, and everyone else who loved him, I'm so sorry. Matt, I'll miss you. |
| posted by kody on 08.11.03 you know matt is reading all of this with the biggest smile on his face. |
| posted by meg (boston) on 08.11.03 my boys... i wish that i had some beautifully poetic way to tell you how very sorry i am for what we all have lost. may all of us that know and love matt, share in wonderful memories that so perfectly make matt, matt. the too tight sweaters, the indie rock two step, the breath taking hugs with just the right amount of squeeze, his incredible way of making everyone feel important, beautiful, and like a life long friend. let me also extend my thanks to you, in allowing our friend to live out his dream... you took him to limits, that i dont think he even knew were within reach. warmest wishes, the deepest prayers, and glorious celebration. i love you and so wish that i could be there to share with you, know that you are in my thoughts. |
| posted by Brian Moss on 08.11.03 My brief experiences with Matt led me to belive that he was nothing short of an outstanding human beign. Kind, intelligent, passionate and talented. It greatly sadnens me to know that Matt has passed on. Take comfort in remembering what he created as a musician, but more importantly as a person. Regardless of our religious beliefs I'm sure we can all agree that Matt is in a safe and beautiful place, be it a spirtual one or simply in our hearts. I would like to extend my deepest condolences to Matt's bandmates, friends and family. Please take care of yourselves and eachother during this trying time. |
| posted by Ryan Duncan (dre) on 08.11.03 When I first met matt, he gave me a big hug without even knowing who the hell I was. That's just another testemonial to his generous spirit and loving character. Matt, your music is an inspiration, your soul is a miracle. "Blindly the uncertain soul asks to continue/ when it is in the lives of others that will make that happen,/ as you yourself are the mirror and the image/ of those who did not live as long as you/ and others will be (and are) your immortality on earth" -Jorge Juis Borges I will miss you deeply. Heartfelt condolances to all who love you. |
| posted by Aaron on 08.11.03 I met matt in 1999 at a show in Peoria, IL. I saw the vida blue and ten-grand at last 5 more times since then, I am so sad to hear of this. The first time i talked to him, i was 15 or 16 i remember him hugging a bunch of people he had just met including me. He will be missed so much for his art. I don't believs in heaven or hell, but I hope he is somewhere and happy. aaron |
| posted by alexandra on 08.11.03 if anyone from wichita is going to the memorial service in iowa city on wednesday, call and let me know. i'll help pay for gas, i just want to go. alexandra (316)942-6592 |
| posted by michelle on 08.11.03 im shocked... at iowa city, and his family loosing matt davis. i know how much he was loved around here. i didnt get the chance to know him well myself, but many of my friends did...and ive shed tears for them. i was planning on going to the show this week. ten grand was/is one of the best. im at a loss, have to make some phone calls. im so sorry zack, joel, and bob. |
| posted by daniel on 08.11.03 i was gone all weekend and i heard about this the moment i got back home. it's horrible news and i free truly sorry for matt's family, bandmates, and close friends. i still remember the first time i met matt at koo's where he nearly knocked me out flailing around. then again at koo's once more and the che and smell. he was one of the nicest people i've met who tours the country and he has touched seemingly everyone i know. that's something that is hard to be said about anyone. matt was truly amazing... |
| posted by Aaron & Leah on 08.11.03 We are so very sorry and hurt to hear the news. Matt was one of the most genuine people I have ever came in contact with on this earth. The few times I had with Matt was some of the greatest times I've had in my life. Leah and I will miss Matt greatly a long with everyone here in Spokane. I am at a loss of words....to Joel, Bob, Zach, Will, his family and friends, our condolences......Aaron & Leah |
| posted by Nick on 08.11.03 I had the great pleasure of meeting Matt this past year. He was warm hearted and had nothing but kind things to say. He will be missed immensely. |
| posted by Nick on 08.11.03 I had the great pleasure of meeting Matt this past year. He was warm hearted and had nothing but kind things to say. He will be missed immensely. |
| posted by michelle on 08.11.03 im shocked... at iowa city, and his family loosing matt davis. i know how much he was loved around here. i didnt get the chance to know him well myself, but many of my friends did...and ive shed tears for them. i was planning on going to the show this week. ten grand was/is one of the best. im at a loss, have to make some phone calls. im so sorry zack, joel, and bob. |
| posted by josh tekulvi on 08.11.03 i had never met a more genuine man. i don't think i know what to say. a great loss is set on the shoulders of those who will never meet him. |
| posted by david on 08.11.03 i remembering seeing Ten Grand live for the first time at a local skate park and being astonished, and more than anything being astonished by Matt's energy. He had so much feel to the music you can tell he really enjoyed what he was doing by his total outrageous positive presence. goodbye. |
| posted by John on 08.11.03 i met matt when ten grand played in newcastle, uk. aside from the phenomenal music, i was stunned by how humble and friendly matt (and the band) was. matt was a particularly enchanting guy, who was genuinely interested in what complete strangers had to say. this is a terrible loss, and i wish the very best for his family and friends. |
| posted by grace s on 08.11.03 the kindest heart i have ever encountered. absolutely saturated with talent and empathy. i am so sorry. |
| posted by melvin (peoria shows) on 08.11.03 Man, this is just shocking. I can't say anything. |
| posted by Sheri on 08.11.03 I went to see Ten grand play because my friend Kellie intruduced me to them. I love your music and Matt will be miss very much. My heart goes out to his friends and loved ones. |
| posted by kate and abby on 08.11.03 matt you will be missed more than words can even begin to say. its not fair. why are the best taken? the ones who truely know what life is about and live that way. you were so nice, so kind, so everything that i wanted to be. how can you be gone? i cant imagine you not being there anymore. we love you and miss you and wish that we could be there for everyone. |
| posted by kyle on 08.11.03 only meet him once but he was a sweet heart. sorry to his friends and family.lovekyle. |
| posted by luke tweedy on 08.11.03 in this time of horrible loss and sadness all that i know to say is that i loved matt a great deal and feel the pain of his passing. i send my deepest and most heart-felt reguards to his family and other friends. i will miss him greatly and forever, not just the memory of his music will live on, the memory of his friendship will live in my heart until the end of days. i love you matt and will see you again someday. |
| posted by j on 08.11.03 never heard a single note from the band, not a single breath of matt's. but I felt this message so hard when I read it today I cannot describe it. let him rest in noise and peace j |
| posted by Emily Anderson on 08.11.03 I never imagined my brother Joel could be so lucky as to spend months at a time with three people so amazing as the members of Ten Grand. In fact, I had a picture of them and my brother Ben on my dorm room door last winter, and when people would ask me who they were, I'd say "my five older brothers." The last time I saw Matt I told him I was going to be an English major. He put his arm over me and said, "Welcome to the flock." I can only imagine angels are now saying the same thing to him. Matt was an exemplary human being who accomplished great things and touched the lives of many. He was an amazing person both on and off stage. I will never forget him. |
| posted by Mauro on 08.11.03 I'm speechless. I've known Ten Grand and Matt one cold day in Gorizia. They had a show near my city. The sound they've created was so impressive and huge. The music was incredible, and beautiful, and powerful... I've never seen a group played in that way. At the end of the concert I've buyed their cd. And then I gave my hand to all the members of the band, for congratulate with them, for the experience. And also to Matt. He was happy, and me too. For me an amazing discovery. It's sad and awful to find that after so few months he's no more here with us. rip mauro |
| posted by eag on 08.11.03 Jesus Fucking Christ...So this is the way things are, apparently. Despite yr best intentions, you end up taking this world and everyone in it for granted; and it takes something like the senseless loss of a beautiful person to make you see that...nope, sorry, you still don't get it and, hey, maybe you never will. But keep on striving, friend(s)...We can only be guilty of trying. Love. To the best of your abilities. My best to you all. |
| posted by Les on 08.11.03 Matt, you are one of the nicest people I've ever met, you have a special place in my heart. |
posted by mark on 08.11.03 |
| posted by david on 08.11.03 i am going to miss matt a lot. i don't know how to express myself at his passing. besides being a talented man, he always gave the best hugs. i only have good memories of matt. you have inspired me in the past and you will continue to inspire me in the future. love you, matt. |
| posted by danielle. on 08.11.03 he insipired me so much, and i hardly had the chance to do more than shake his hand and exchange a few sentences with him. my thoughts are with his family and friends. |
| posted by A Friend on 08.11.03 Im still jaded about Matt's passing, the world stopped.....I'll never call anything that meaningful or unbelieveale ever again unless im talking about Matt's voice and impact of The Vidablue / Ten-Grand. Goodbye. Be at Peace. |
| posted by bj on 08.11.03 a true original, i will miss you matt...b |
| posted by christ trull on 08.11.03 the world is a sad place without matt in it. he was an inspiration to me personally and musically. i know i will think of him always as an example of how i wish i could be: generous, intense, hilarious, genuine, creative...so much more. goodbye matt. |
| posted by Scott on 08.11.03 I can't believe no one's said it yet - this isn't heaven, this sucks. |
| posted by kevin on 08.11.03 i've had the pleasure to be in a band that has played with ten grand/vidablue twice, and i can honestly say they were two of the best shows i've ever been part of. baltimore will miss you, matt. http://www.setlistphoto.com/the_vida_blue.html these pictures, taken by a friend of mine, are of the first time i ever saw vidablue/ten grand. what a fucking amazing show. love, kevin |
| posted by r.d on 08.11.03 I've seen matt around at shows for years. we never really talked though. But the vida blue/ten grand seemed to be one of those bands that were just invincible. i dont know how many times i've missed one of their shows and said "ill just see them next time" ... because there was ALWAYS a next time. i knew matt davis was a musical genious. i knew he was a sincere and genuine person. i knew he was one of the most inspiring people ive ever seen/met/heard. but i never really realized the extent of his warm heart. for the last day and a half ive been thinking, "that really sucks. i feel bad", but it didnt hit home until 10 minutes ago when i started looking at over 10 messageboards from all over the country, and 3 foreign sites as well as, at least 7(i stopped counting) label/band/zine sites that had mentioned his death. he was an incredible person. this is the biggest lost the midwest has suffered since i started going to shows. i have nothing else to say. may God be with his family and friends. I'm sure that right now he is hearing "well done my good and faithful servant". |
| posted by sonnet on 08.11.03 my favorite memory - being at a vida blue show in the q/c on a saturday, knowing the next day was easter sunday, and deciding to go with the flow and follow them to a hole-in-the-wall bar in dubuque instead of sitting down to an easter dinner with family. i had the most memorable easter of my life. matt hugs with his whole being. it always has stuck with me. i don't think i've met anyone with more heart. my heart is with you. |
| posted by Steven and Pamela on 08.11.03 Matt and the band stayed with us whenever they came thru Normal. Matt was a gentleman, was easy to talk with and laugh with. It was always a pleasure to have him here, along with the Blue and TenG. We will miss him and his manner very much. He made a difference, not only in our world, but in this world. |
| posted by kyle on 08.11.03 saw you guys play a handfull of times around the Twin Cities, was always very impressed with your sound & live show. very sad day indeed :( |
posted by Whitney Teska on 08.11.03
i can't bring myself to refer to matt in the past tense, as he will always be alive in the hearts and minds of each and every one of his friends. he has touched us all so deeply and sincerely, and that is what has made the past two days so difficult. my most sincere regrets go out to bob, joel, zach, will, and matt's family. we love you matt, and miss you more than you could've ever imagined. |
| posted by Rachael on 08.11.03 im so sorry, guys. the Spokane crew has you in our thoughts. |
| posted by Nick Jones on 08.11.03 I can't put this any other way. To the Davis family all of my love and heartfelt sympathy. To my boys, I love you guys and am thankful for every moment we've had. I could sure use one of his hugs right now. I miss my friend. xoxo nick |
| posted by rebecca on 08.11.03 matt- this all seems so strange to me. just the other day i was packing to move back home and i came across a really old rusty v.b. pin and wore it on my sweater. i will miss you so so much. i keep thinking of all the chance meetings we have had over the years, our letters here and there. you have always been one of my all time favorite people and i will always keep your memory close to my heart. i love you kid. i will miss you so so much. |
| posted by maggie on 08.11.03 i was with Shannon yesterday afternoon, getting back from Target, carefree, flying my model airplane out the window....as we walked into her house, Jonathon was standing there with a solemn look on his face and told us Matt had just died. we were so fucking shocked (we both put our hand over mouth simultaneously)....i chain smoked, cried, smoked some more, came home, played some music in my basement, cried, smoked some more, and said a lil' somthin' to Matt before i fell asleep. still feeling the wonderful hug and hearing "thank you", from his lips, for coming to see them. of course. i'm so happy that i came down there in May to see you boys....you know i love you and will be there to be there for you, joel, zach, bob, will, luke, courtney, etc.....*kiss* |
| posted by dave.xxx on 08.11.03 matt. you shared some of the best moments of my life with me. from coast to coast, basement to attic and everywhere in between. you will forever be in my mind and in my heart. you made every second we spent together a memory worth remembering. i love you. i miss you. thank you for everything. |
| posted by Drew on 08.11.03 My thoughts and prayers go out to Matt and the Davis family. You will be forever missed. |
| posted by Stephanie on 08.11.03 I am living in Minneapolis now and won't be able to make it back for the memorial. Please know that Doug and my thoughts are with Matt, the band, and his family. He was an exceptional human being that inspired everyone around him to be a better person. We lit a candle for him last night and are mourning his lost. We love you Matt, Stephanie, Doug, and the rest of the Winter Blanket |
| posted by jeni-milwaukee on 08.11.03 wow...this is still all so surreal. matt, thank you for being such a wonderful, caring, significant, sincere friend. since the day we met 4 or 5 years a |